It's nice that I'm beginning not to care about this

Friday night my hubby attended a talk given by computer graphics group. Wow I wished I would have gone! They showed parts of Polar Express that aren't in the movie and showed how things were done. But I was exhausted from Radio Drama and just wanted to stay home.

He came in the door and gushed about it then hesitated and said "She-who-must-not-be-named called today. She's in town and wants to visit."

For once I didn't feel anger welling up, so when I said "Have a nice visit." I didn't have to pretend to be calm.

He said, "To forgive is divine."

I said, "I'm not that divine. Besides, to let a person walk all over you time and time again is just stupid. I'm not stupid."

It turns out she's been married to the same guy for two years now! Eric said he teased her about that being a personal best. Her husband's father passed away so they're here to deal with property and final arrangements. The funeral is tomorrow. Eric is going to go to their hotel to visit on Wednesday night. She called while I was in class and they talked a while. She didn't understand why her husband was bursting into tears at odd moments and thought since he wasn't close to his dad that he shouldn't be so upset. Eric set her straight about that.

Part of me wants to be supportive, too. But there's NO WAY I want to open THAT door again. Nope. My contribution is to encourage Eric to be as supportive as he wants without dragging me into it.

silly quiz

You Are a Dreaming Soul

Your vivid emotions and imagination takes you awy from this world So much so that you tend to live in your head most of the time You have great dreams and ambitions that could be the envy of all... But for you, following through with your dreams is a bit difficult You are charming, endearing, and people tend to love you. Forgiving and tolerant, you see the world through rose colored glasses. Underneath it all, you have a ton of passion that you hide from others. Always hopeful, you tend to expect positive outcomes in your life. Souls you are most compatible with: Newborn Soul, Prophet Soul, and Traveler Soul

What Kind of Soul Are You?