Good for you for confronting the abuser with the abuse. I'm amazed they feel bad. My abusers just don't get it. Narciscism protects them from any bad thoughts about themselves.

My mom also is tickled by things. When she calls someone a dirty dog, OH NO! That is really bad. You really give me a feel for your aunt through your writing.

I just love you, Linda, you are a super special person.